Bondage tips (The Tao of the Rope)

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Question:

kinkawarecoach_bondage-cvHans, I’d like to start with bondage… Could you give me a hand?
Answer:
Well… apart from giving a hand I’d better give you some safetytips and a series of youtu.be’s so you can start yourself and follow the leads Youtube gives to start surfing. I am not a ‘bondagemaster’ myself but I would like people to play safely so I can give you at least an idea and a direction to surf. And of course these leads are completely arbitrary and if you have tips for great additions: let me know.


My personal bondage tips are (the Tao of the Rope):

the Tao of the Rope

by Hans

  • When you go somewhere: think about why you’d wanna go there and
    know your way back!
    so avoid the “one twue way” and find your own:

    • either a flat knot or a direction change (with possibly a half hitch)
      • or a direction changing loop (for fast unbinders)

      around the last rope…

  • A knowledge of anatomy (joints, nerves and arteries) is way more important than a knowlegde of knots or ropes
    • careful with unstable joints like shoulders, knees and vertebrae
    • with the right rope: knots are overrated.
    • one column ties: leave room for your fingers
    • two column ties: soft on soft.
  • red or blue… might be exactly the reason why you’re tying…
    • but don’t overdo it tho… after dark purple, or after white… comes black!
      • (in bondage black is not beautiful)
  • just a little numbness or tingling: immediate reaction!
    • CUT the rope if you’ve lost your way!
    • (instruct your bunny accordingly)
  • Think about both of your positions (what is up will come down)
    • limp bunnies may crush nerves but breathing comes first!
  • AVOID the neck until you really, really  know what you’re doing…
    • nothing should “end up there” after slippage…
  • Do not try to hoist someone up until you really, really  know what you’re doing…

Some of this won’t mean sh*t to the bondage newbie but when you are finding your way around in ‘bondageland’ you’ll understand what I’m getting at. Or follow one of our courses at Kinkinfo.nl

So let’s have some examples!


Bondage Youtube’s

The first one is a Rope Cuff and apart from the fact that Victor Lightworship demonstrates very clearly, he does so on Skin Diamond (swoon):

youtu.be/wX7xJgf2ACQ?t=1m29s :


The second is a Wrist Tie:
youtu.be/UfcMZ_HPfvM :


“Jp the pope” shows us on Ella Nova’s a Quickie wrist tie:
youtu.be/Hixu3CHwEXw:


How to Tie a Basic Armbinder

youtu.be/pc4mvUG8vNk:


Other tips

For Photographers and Bondagemodels (the first how to, the latter how to recognize professionality… or not!)

youtu.be/YajNL4os7IQ:


If you want to know more about Japanese bondage I’d advise:

RopeMarks Ryū*

and especially his RopeMarks Ryū – Glossary*


also interesting might be:


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