BDSM

Question:

kinkawarecoach_bondage-cv Hans, I’d like to start with bondage… Could you give me a hand?
Answer:
Well… apart from giving a hand I’d better give you some safetytips and a series of youtu.be’s so you can start yourself and follow the leads Youtube gives to start surfing. I am not a ‘bondagemaster’ myself but I would like people to play safely so I can give you at least an idea and a direction to surf. And of course these leads are completely arbitrary and if you have tips for great additions: let me know.

My personal bondage tips are (the Tao of the Rope):

the Tao of the Rope

by Hans

When you go somewhere: think about why you’d wanna go there and
know your way back!
so avoid the “one twue way” and find your own:
- either a flat knot or a direction change (with possibly a half hitch)
  - or a direction changing loop (for fast unbinders)
  around the last rope…
A knowledge of anatomy (joints, nerves and arteries) is way more important than a knowlegde of knots or ropes
- careful with unstable joints like shoulders, knees and vertebrae
- with the right rope: knots are overrated.
- one column ties: leave room for your fingers
- two column ties: soft on soft.
red or blue… might be exactly the reason why you’re tying…
- but don’t overdo it tho… after dark purple, or after white… comes black!
  - (in bondage black is not beautiful)
just a little numbness or tingling: immediate reaction!
- CUT the rope if you’ve lost your way!
- (instruct your bunny accordingly)
Think about both of your positions (what is up will come down)
- limp bunnies may crush nerves but breathing comes first!
AVOID the neck until you really, really know what you’re doing…
- nothing should “end up there” after slippage…
Do not try to hoist someone up until you really, really know what you’re doing…

Some of this won’t mean sh*t to the bondage newbie but when you are finding your way around in ‘bondageland’ you’ll understand what I’m getting at. Or follow one of our courses at Kinkinfo.nl