More about “sexual polarities”… (9 questions)

Consider your sexual polarities Question: I’ve talked about the sexual polarities before (see here*). People liked a little more explanation with this so: this time a post with a little bit more text for you to be able to get a better feel for the options in play. Of course these are just very crude

Bondage tips (The Tao of the Rope)

BDSM Question: Hans, I’d like to start with bondage… Could you give me a hand? Answer: Well… apart from giving a hand I’d better give you some safetytips and a series of youtu.be’s so you can start yourself and follow the leads Youtube gives to start surfing. I am not a ‘bondagemaster’ myself but I

What’s in my oh so Domly first Aid kit? (apart from chocolate)

Yes, I would advice anyone that is into a bit of heavier play to have a redcross (or lighter version) of first aid knowledge. No really, how hard is that and it could save lives. Also you could (next to this lighthearted version) have a serious look at a home-family First Aid-kit Now what could

Remember to embrace the FLUFF (an acronym when talking about sexual whishes)

General Sexuality Question: I am kinda afraid to talk to my lover about the kinky things I find hot. How do I start that conversation about my fetishes? Any ideas? a question I got on FetBuzz* Answer: Embrace the F.L.U.F.F.!… And don’t even try to do this without blushing. It will be awkward and the

Ballbusting and Orgasm

BDSM Question: Eric la Servante (fetlife.com/users/5817088) writes in reaction to KinkAware.Info-Ballbusting: Since my first contact with BDSM I like to serve Ladies who take pleasure to hurt my balls. This happens mostly by ballbusting. My first Lady (2005-2010) was cautious. She gave me ballbusting only as punishment. For my next Lady (2007-2010) and my current

The risk of choking or swallowing your panties or briefs in bondage?

BDSM/Sex Tip Question: I sometimes see movies with tape on the mouth or bondage over the mouth and often first something is introduced in the mouth, usually certain garments 😉 But isn’t this a bit dangerous? ? Bob Answer: Of course you need to be careful when you put something in someone’s mouth and of

“Red Flags” Wat zijn dat dan?

woorden… (talk about sex) Question: “Red Flags” Wat zijn dat bij Kink? annlies Answer: Een red flag in de kink-wereld is een term voor gedragingen of uitspraken van iemand die de omgeving alert zou mogen maken dat iemand mogelijk niet zo “onschuldig” is of dat zelfs een situatie potentieel gevaarlijk is: fysiek of emotioneel. Voor

Are they MAD?!! (these kinky folks)

Sex Question: Are they MAD, these kinky folks? Dancing in leather and rubber in the middle of the night. And fucking and beating each other and stuff… Anonymous Answer: Well, actually: NO! And that’s not just me saying that: a well performed scientific study shows it. And even better: the news is spreading. Read: even

-a slap in the face is… fun?

Sex Question: Is it fun to be hit in the face? Max Landis Answer: You bet ya! On youtube you get to see Max Landis filming people hitting each other in the face for the first time… Pro tips: …remember to take of glasses and rings …and do not hit each other on the ears

2 Juli 2014 de docu-films: “Eroticide” en “Kink doc” in Worm R’dam

Woensdag 2 Juli 2014 om·20:00 worden in Worm (Boomgaardsstraat 71, 3012 XA Rotterdam) de twee docu-films “Eroticide” en “Kink doc” met een introductie door Hans. De kosten zijn 7 Euros (reserveer jou ticket op http://www.filmzeit.nl)