Monkeypox and Sexparties update July’22 Monkeypox is a disease from a virus that isn’t really airborne but gets (most likely) spread by rubbing skin to skin, or by infected skin cells that still lay around somewhere after they were rubbed off the tiny scabs from former lesions. So if we meet our friends at Pride…Continue reading “Monkeypox and Sexparties”
Category Archives: Drugs and Party
Policies around abuse in parties
I got a Question lately:Dear Hans,I’m X, I’m organizing XXX. We recently received a report for the first time about abuse (inside/outside) our party. That is why we are asking various organizers about their policies. Someone told me that you were very helpful to them.Do you have any tips or information that we can useContinue reading “Policies around abuse in parties”
I can’t go to a Kinky Club with THIS body!!!
Fetish Question:Let’s be clear. For a lot of people, it is a really healing experience to go out to a kinky club or a fetish club for a night of debauchery and fun. Where people like you would have enjoyed your (MFX) ‘dad-bod’ tummy, your kind smile, your hands, your long skinny legs and yourContinue reading “I can’t go to a Kinky Club with THIS body!!!”
Kinky Talk Chemsex treatment? -03b-
Sexuality/Drugs In our Kinky Talks (nr. 24) too we did talk about different aspects of “chemsex”?It might double-up the texts here and there but the Powerpoint might be an addition to the previous posts. Chemsex
What goes wrong in Chemsex treatments? -02-
Sexuality/Drugs Let’s talk about the ‘botttom’-aspects of “chemsex” problems? About our ideas of what should be possible and our self image.Let’s have a bit of a look at porn. And how to enjoy it better.
What goes wrong in Chemsex treatments? -01-
Let’s talk about treatments for “chemsex”. Because the ‘closed-minded’ approach that I often see around me gives (in my opinion) rather violent unwanted results
Chemsex: addiction & dependence
Sexuality Question: I hear you help people that are having problems with chemsex? Could you say more about that, please? Answer: Sure! have talked about the subject before on our ‘Kinky Talks’ (English) that I do with our fab Adalberto. We’ve talked about it in our ‘Tabootalks’ (Dutch). And I’ll talk about it on SundayContinue reading “Chemsex: addiction & dependence”
About Sex and GHB and XTC … and about dependency perhabs?
About Sex and GHB and ecstasy … and dependency Question: ” Dear Hans, My problem is that I have difficulty letting go of my “inhibitions”. Because of this I’m hardly ever excited, I’ve never came and I almost never really want sex. But there was one time where it’s been different: when I was usingContinue reading “About Sex and GHB and XTC … and about dependency perhabs?”
Hissing behind her back or expecting her to do the next step
Etiquette (for men) Well, guys, let me be frank. If I see a rubber clad or leather cuffed girl I am getting all kind of urges. But the thing is: these ar MY urges. Sometimes on adult parties I hear from the ladies that they were groped outside the darkroom, that men were hissing behindContinue reading “Hissing behind her back or expecting her to do the next step”
Respect is sexy
Etiquette as an ‘old fart’ I’d like to teach the young bulls a lesson. And you did read the lesson already: Respects is sexy for women! Let’s be very clear: We all like to watch women wearing skimpy clothes. We like hotpants when they show leg, we like miniskirts that are designed to be aContinue reading “Respect is sexy”
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