I can’t go to a Kinky Club with THIS body!!!

Fetish Question:Let’s be clear. For a lot of people, it is a really healing experience to go out to a kinky club or a fetish club for a night of debauchery and fun. Where people like you would have enjoyed your (MFX) ‘dad-bod’ tummy, your kind smile, your hands, your long skinny legs and yourContinue reading “I can’t go to a Kinky Club with THIS body!!!”

What goes wrong in Chemsex treatments? -02-

Sexuality/Drugs Let’s talk about the ‘botttom’-aspects of “chemsex” problems? About our ideas of what should be possible and our self image.Let’s have a bit of a look at porn. And how to enjoy it better.

Chemsex: addiction & dependence

Sexuality Question: I hear you help people that are having problems with chemsex? Could you say more about that, please? Answer: Sure! have talked about the subject before on our ‘Kinky Talks’ (English) that I do with our fab Adalberto. We’ve talked about it in our ‘Tabootalks’ (Dutch). And I’ll talk about it on SundayContinue reading “Chemsex: addiction & dependence”

About Sex and GHB and XTC … and about dependency perhabs?

About Sex and GHB and ecstasy … and dependency Question: ” Dear Hans, My problem is that I have difficulty letting go of my “inhibitions”. Because of this I’m hardly ever excited, I’ve never came and I almost never really want sex. But there was one time where it’s been different: when I was usingContinue reading “About Sex and GHB and XTC … and about dependency perhabs?”

Hissing behind her back or expecting her to do the next step

Etiquette (for men) Well, guys, let me be frank. If I see a rubber clad or leather cuffed girl I am getting all kind of urges. But the thing is: these ar MY urges. Sometimes on adult parties I hear from the ladies that they were groped outside the darkroom, that men were hissing behindContinue reading “Hissing behind her back or expecting her to do the next step”

-Roeskunstenaars en Roesknoeiers

Dope Question: Wat is het verschil tussen “roeskunstenaars” versus “roesknoeiers”? Hans Answer: Gebruik van dope wordt steeds normaler. Waar er vroeger alcohol de belangrijkste drug was, is dit aan het veranderen. In het laatste onderzoek van het Trimbos Instituut dat zo’n 60% van de respondenten wel eens drugs gebruikt. En het wordt ook sociaal gezienContinue reading “-Roeskunstenaars en Roesknoeiers”