I can’t go to a Kinky Club with THIS body!!!

Fetish Question:Let’s be clear. For a lot of people, it is a really healing experience to go out to a kinky club or a fetish club for a night of debauchery and fun. Where people like you would have enjoyed your (MFX) ‘dad-bod’ tummy, your kind smile, your hands, your long skinny legs and your

Kinky Talk Chemsex treatment? -03b-

Sexuality/Drugs In our Kinky Talks (nr. 24) too we did talk about different aspects of “chemsex”?It might double-up the texts here and there but the Powerpoint might be an addition to the previous posts. Chemsex

What goes wrong in Chemsex treatments? -02-

Sexuality/Drugs Let’s talk about the ‘botttom’-aspects of “chemsex” problems? About our ideas of what should be possible and our self image.Let’s have a bit of a look at porn. And how to enjoy it better.

What goes wrong in Chemsex treatments? -01-

Let’s talk about treatments for “chemsex”. Because the ‘closed-minded’ approach that I often see around me gives (in my opinion) rather violent unwanted results

Chemsex: addiction & dependence

Sexuality Question: I hear you help people that are having problems with chemsex? Could you say more about that, please? Answer: Sure! have talked about the subject before on our ‘Kinky Talks’ (English) that I do with our fab Adalberto. We’ve talked about it in our ‘Tabootalks’ (Dutch). And I’ll talk about it on Sunday

About Sex and GHB and XTC … and about dependency perhabs?

About Sex and GHB and ecstasy … and dependency Question: ” Dear Hans, My problem is that I have difficulty letting go of my “inhibitions”. Because of this I’m hardly ever excited, I’ve never came and I almost never really want sex. But there was one time where it’s been different: when I was using

Hissing behind her back or expecting her to do the next step

Etiquette (for men) Well, guys, let me be frank. If I see a rubber clad or leather cuffed girl I am getting all kind of urges. But the thing is: these ar MY urges. Sometimes on adult parties I hear from the ladies that they were groped outside the darkroom, that men were hissing behind

Respect is sexy

Etiquette as an ‘old fart’ I’d like to teach the young bulls a lesson. And you did read the lesson already: Respects is sexy for women! Let’s be very clear: We all like to watch women  wearing skimpy clothes. We like hotpants when they show leg, we like miniskirts that are designed to be a

-Roeskunstenaars en Roesknoeiers

Dope Question: Wat is het verschil tussen “roeskunstenaars” versus “roesknoeiers”? Hans Answer: Gebruik van dope wordt steeds normaler. Waar er vroeger alcohol de belangrijkste drug was, is dit aan het veranderen. In het laatste onderzoek van het Trimbos Instituut dat zo’n 60% van de respondenten wel eens drugs gebruikt. En het wordt ook sociaal gezien

Adult parties: let’s talk sense

Lets talk about adult party-life. Not just the hype, not only the fun part but also the serious shit. 1999 is long gone. It’s time to be responsible adults and party. For a lot of people adult parties are a regular part of their life. But we tend to hush and shut up about it.