Sexuality/BDSM/Fetish Question: What does psychotherapy have to do with BDSM? We aren’t sick right? Answer: Right! Still I think it was really really interesting to listen to Karina Kehlet Lins, an international clinical psychologist, systemic psychotherapist, sex therapist, university lecturer and author of several books. Karina gave a presentation in our 25th Kinky Talk thatContinue reading “Kinky Talks: The Psychology of kinks”
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Letting my fetishist partner experiment if I won’t join the fetish action anymore?
Sexuality/Fetish Question:Do I have to let my fetishist partner experiment if I won’t join the fetish action anymore? Will I otherwise lose him to kink/fetish secrets? How do I know how strong it is in him? Is the urge stronger than love?Answer:That is debatable… a debate that should be held, I guess… For only timeContinue reading “Letting my fetishist partner experiment if I won’t join the fetish action anymore?”
Kink has always been political and has always had political consequences
Let me be clear: black lives matter to me. And there is no “but” following that statement. Being a white old fart myself, black lives matter to me and that is exactly why I am worried about the conversations I read on facebook where people from the “Black lives matter” movement are turning more andContinue reading “Kink has always been political and has always had political consequences”
Female sex and the duality within BDSM
Sexuality/BDSM Why BDSM?In a society where on the one hand we try to sell everything with sex and on the other hand, we try to deny our sexuality, especially the female sexuality, it is not really surprising that reading material such as “fifty shades” gets so popular so suddenly. Materialism (real Dominants have their ownContinue reading “Female sex and the duality within BDSM”
a Q&A about ABDL with Emma for Bold Pleasures
Fetish Emma and I did an AMA (Ask Me Anything) about ABDL for Bold Pleasures* which I thin is really informative to the general public. We ended up talking for one and a half hours about ABDL with Sonja to clarify things about this growing but often frowned upon fetish. In a world where rappersContinue reading “a Q&A about ABDL with Emma for Bold Pleasures”
How to get your Self out of the Binge-and-Purge Cycle?
General Question: How can I get myself out of this binging purging cycle where I indulge in my fetish and have a blast. But during my purging, I really reject this side of my personality and throw away all of my gear. How can I prevent the purges or the binging? Answer: Binging and PurgingContinue reading “How to get your Self out of the Binge-and-Purge Cycle?”
Terminal-F.com (who’s your favorite?)
Fetish So if you are just a tiny bit like me you do not really mind to see beautiful women clad in latex and leather and lace. Great chance! In alphabetical order the six European topmodels Kay Morgan, Lotte Groeneweg, MadMoiselle Peachy, Psylocke, Sister Sinister, Starfucked teamed up to create www.Terminal-F.com.
8 okt’16 – Europerve party – 30th birthday
Party Europerve 30th Birthday Europerve is one of the first real fetish (rubber/latex) parties in the world. It has been quiet for many a year but it is alive and kicking again for the 5rd resurrection in a row. It is not so much a sex-party -even tho sexyness is all around of course- it isContinue reading “8 okt’16 – Europerve party – 30th birthday”
You have any sex – addiction tips? #ABDL
Sexuality Question I have a fetish for diapers and I don not mean to stop liking that stuff, what I experience as a problem is the urge to pleasure myself when I see or think about a diaper. I want my abdl life to be pure, like that of a child’s. Not masturbating fives timesContinue reading “You have any sex – addiction tips? #ABDL”