Question: A real dominant doesn’t fuck on first dates, right?

BDSM/Dating Question: Some dude is messaging me about meeting me and wanting to get laid. I told him a real dominant doesn’t jump right into bed with someone first meet. Now he’s complaining it’s a bit of a train journey “just for a drink”. Is this in my head or am I right? Answer: oh…Continue reading “Question: A real dominant doesn’t fuck on first dates, right?”

I want to have my own slavegirl… what are my rights?

BDSM Question: on Being a Dom(me) Hi Hans, I want a slavegirl who does what I say. How do I find a woman to submit to my every whim? And I want to give her to friends to fuck and shit. But what if she does not want to what I want, what are myContinue reading “I want to have my own slavegirl… what are my rights?”

Remember to embrace the FLUFF (an acronym when talking about sexual whishes)

General Sexuality Question: I am kinda afraid to talk to my lover about the kinky things I find hot. How do I start that conversation about my fetishes? Any ideas? a question I got on FetBuzz* Answer: Embrace the F.L.U.F.F.!… And don’t even try to do this without blushing. It will be awkward and theContinue reading “Remember to embrace the FLUFF (an acronym when talking about sexual whishes)”

My boyfriend lets me date another… #panic!

Question: My boyfriend said that she was happy for me that I can experiment with my submissive feelings. We tried and he’s not into BDSM and we agreed that I am allowed to “find my master”… no limits… He says he is fine with that and I really really want to believe him, but itContinue reading “My boyfriend lets me date another… #panic!”

“Red Flags” Wat zijn dat dan?

woorden… (talk about sex) Question: “Red Flags” Wat zijn dat bij Kink? annlies Answer: Een red flag in de kink-wereld is een term voor gedragingen of uitspraken van iemand die de omgeving alert zou mogen maken dat iemand mogelijk niet zo “onschuldig” is of dat zelfs een situatie potentieel gevaarlijk is: fysiek of emotioneel. VoorContinue reading ““Red Flags” Wat zijn dat dan?”